Life Happened...

It's been almost a year since I've shared anything on this blog. I believe it's safe to say that life happened.

After twenty years of marriage, getting through the midnight hours, forgiving, praying, being faithful, looking beyond faults, biting my tongue, and being the wife God asked me to be, I've left my marriage. Well, let me say it this way - God has released me from my marriage.

I have no regrets; and I'm at peace with my decision. It wasn't a difficult decision because I believe my spouse left me before I left - not physically, but emotionally. I felt like I was the only one in our union who was married.

Hypocrite? Not at all. Everything I've shared on this blog is from my heart and I stand behind every word. Actions speak louder than words, so when a spouse's actions say they no longer want to work on the relationship, it's time to move on. Time was given, counseling was offered, and forgiveness was unconditional.

I didn't give up....I had to save myself.

To be continued...


Tal said...

I appreciate the words that have been written here....plain & simple truth.
You are a brutally honest, grounded, realistic & an organic woman/mom. did you know how I think & feel at times?
Thanks for sharing-keep going.

James Zicrov said...

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